I have engaged with an extra beautiful 4th born (Out of my league). We were attracted to each other initially and now all her characteristics are out in the open. I do not need to discribe to you about this personality clash as it is exacly what is in your books. I see the anger, and all what you have said on all your birth order writings about onlies and 4ths relationships.
I got engaged before I read about Birth order. I am ready to sacrifice a lot to make this relationship work. I want to use my intelligence to make this work. Have you come across any onlies who have been able to successfully manage a 4th wit commitment phorbia and the worst 4th born characteristics?
I am an only with a third born mother and a second born fateher. I
am much closer to my mother than my father. My mother has soo much
influence on me and I have been very obedient (never rebelled). I would
say that my mother is the supper intelligent third born. - She has done
only Ordinay level arithmatics. But if I explain to her Advanced math
problems in her own language, she solves them.- she is not a very
paractical person. Does not have close friends definitely. Acts on
impulse. Not very social. Highly commited to the family. Puts huge
amount of pressure to succeed on me and my father. Highly disorganised and never on time. My father is hard
working. Highly organised, Not very intelligent second born but more educated. Bears a
lot of abue from my mother. High on principles. He has less influence
on me compared to mum.
To make things worse for the only, I was mostly home schooled until primary 4 where
our family lived in a remote area where my father was working. Our
family was never seperated except for when my father was away working
for 1 year when I was 2 years old.
I know I have the distinct only character set. From my description
of my Mother and father, I wonder what other secondary characteristics
you might deduce I have.
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Comment written 3 months ago
I have engaged with an extra beautiful 4th born (Out of my league). We were attracted to each other initially and now all her characteristics are out in the open. I do not need to discribe to you about this personality clash as it is exacly what is in your books. I see the anger, and all what you have said on all your birth order writings about onlies and 4ths relationships.
I got engaged before I read about Birth order. I am ready to sacrifice a lot to make this relationship work. I want to use my intelligence to make this work. Have you come across any onlies who have been able to successfully manage a 4th wit commitment phorbia and the worst 4th born characteristics?
Could I use my intelligence to make this work?
Comment written 3 months ago
Hi
I am an only with a third born mother and a second born fateher. I am much closer to my mother than my father. My mother has soo much influence on me and I have been very obedient (never rebelled). I would say that my mother is the supper intelligent third born. - She has done only Ordinay level arithmatics. But if I explain to her Advanced math problems in her own language, she solves them.- she is not a very paractical person. Does not have close friends definitely. Acts on impulse. Not very social. Highly commited to the family. Puts huge amount of pressure to succeed on me and my father. Highly disorganised and never on time. My father is hard working. Highly organised, Not very intelligent second born but more educated. Bears a lot of abue from my mother. High on principles. He has less influence on me compared to mum.
To make things worse for the only, I was mostly home schooled until primary 4 where our family lived in a remote area where my father was working. Our family was never seperated except for when my father was away working for 1 year when I was 2 years old.
I know I have the distinct only character set. From my description of my Mother and father, I wonder what other secondary characteristics you might deduce I have.
Comment written 3 months ago
Hi. I am an only. I have read a most of your blogs and I think that this bitrth order psychology is soo true.